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Twin Flames

I have always believed in soul mates. I used to think that we only had one each, and that it was near impossible to find them. But as I grew more mature I realized that we have many soul mates. There were actually quite a few people that I had connected with over the years in a way I do not connect with most people. It’s like the second you meet them you think to yourself, “Ah, there you are. Where have you been? I have been looking for you”. The strange thing is that the other person feels it too. You might feel as though you have known each other for centuries but not have a clue why or how you could possibly feel this way. You may not even stay in each other’s lives for very long, but the impact that you have on each other is life changing. There is a lasting impression in your mind and your heart that has brought forth a lesson that will definitely help you both to grow as human beings. As I continue to study and re-invent myself to become the person I truly want to be, these people that I swear I have known forever, come and go in and out of my life and I usually transition pretty easily from friendship to friendship. Yes, I do miss them and I do think of them from time to time but all in all I know that it is time for us to part ways for one reason or another. It could even be because of a death, but you go through a process called mourning and then you move forward and get on with your life.  But one day that all changed. I didn’t know it at the time, the way I know it now. I only knew that the moment I saw him, this beautiful man, pop out of nowhere, my life would never be the same. Of course I dismissed this from my mind immediately because I couldn’t imagine why I would have such feelings for a man I had just laid eyes on that very second. I was doing a glamour shot photo session with him but I thought that the woman that owned the place was going to be the photographer. He was quite a surprise since I was sitting on a stool putting on make-up with curlers in my hair and wearing lingerie and thigh high stockings. I should have felt embarrassed but I was too busy trying to figure out why I was so attracted to him. Even though I kept feeling these feelings of familiarity I pushed them from my mind. We were having so much fun during the shoot but why was I feeling this caring and closeness? It felt genuine and it scared me. Dare I say it? It felt like a long lasting love that I could not explain. It’s as though I had been looking for him my whole life and the second I saw him my entire body and soul said, “Oh, there you are!” It seemed like he felt it too, but like I said we dismiss these feelings because we don’t understand where they are coming from.

Well it has been more than seven years now and I have to say that the feelings I have for this man are very real indeed. I have been studying positive living for a few years now and I also have to say that even though this man and I are not an actual couple yet, and I mean that sincerely, we are working toward that. I truly believe in divine timing and I know that without a doubt we are destined to be together. But you can’t rush these things because you would miss all the lessons you are meant to learn along the way. I can tell you this though, that no matter how long it is between visits, when we come together it is the most fun we could ever imagine and then some.

Now, I know that this might not seem so unusual to you, but what makes it different is that we are so in sync with each other that it feels as though we are one. When we touch it’s as if we blend together to become united as one being. And it only gets stronger every time we meet. I am not the mushy, gushy type woman. I have no problem eliminating people out of my life, but I could not shake this guy. Like Mariah Carrie says in her song, “You’ll always be a part of me, I’m part of you indefinitely”. I know, like I know, like I know, that we are meant to be together. And the one thing that I have learned from this relationship is that you can’t hurry love, especially twin flame love, because it is forever and ever and it will reveal itself when the time is absolutely right.

So now that we know what we are meant to be this to each other we can move forward and have the most wonderful life together and share our joy and bliss with the world at large and be the example of what true love is all about. I am now realizing that all the things that have happened up until now were all very important parts of my journey. I have learned so much about life and my part in it. Although I will never stop researching myself and re-inventing myself I am finally very happy with who I am now and I know it will only get better. I know what my purpose is in life. I am here to help others find their purpose and their joy and bliss. Like anything it is a process to find what you are here for but once you find it, life becomes magical and miraculous.

So my suggestion to anyone reading this blog is to not rush love and get to know yourself completely first. Once you know who you are and what you’re here for your twin flame will be able to recognize you, and you them. It’s worth the wait.

Love Deb


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