Right or Happy? Vlog 8/17/25

Hi friends, Deb Mertan here again. And my message today is, would you rather be right or happy? Now, I know a lot of people would say, oh no, if I'm right, I'm going to argue the point until they get it. But you know what? They never get it because they think they're right too. So why argue? Why have arguments and fights over something that you're not going to agree on? And that happens all the time. And it just makes you miserable to be around that person or those people or whatever. Just try to be happy. Let them think what they want to think. And you think what you want to think. One of the things I like to say is you be you and I'll be me. Because we're never going to agree. And I want to be happy. So I don't need to be right to you. To me, I'm right. And that's okay. And you can be right to you. But we're not going to agree. So I'd rather be happy. And that's my message today. Would you rather be right or be happy? Now, if you're the kind of person that wants to argue, fine. Go do it. But you know what? You're never going to be happy. That's all I can say. Never going to be happy. So from now on, when you get in an argument with somebody, think about it. Is it that important? Is it so important that you have to have this argument? Or can you just let it go and let them believe what they want to believe and you believe what you want to believe? Like that saying is, let's agree to disagree. That's all it is. I'm agreeing to disagree, but that's okay. Because I want to be happy. So that's my message today. Be happy. There's a song out there that says, Don't worry, be happy. And it's a really good song. Maybe you should listen to it. Okay? So, until next time, remember, there's always great love here for you. And I will see you again.

With love,

Deb Mertan