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Change Your thinking, Change Your Life

I have been studying the art of allowing for a while now, which is something I learned from Abraham-Hicks. And if you haven’t heard of them I suggest you look them up. They are a cadre of infinite intelligent beings that speak through Ester Hicks. You can ask them anything and they will answer your questions as precisely and directly as possible. You will see that they are for real by the profound answers they give. And the best part is that nothing is off limits. But the funny thing is that no matter how many millions of questions they are asked, they always seem to have the same answer in the end. And that is to be happy and your life will morph into the life you truly want. You see, we are all spiritual beings having human experiences, and it is our job to ask for what we want. That’s the first step. Then the second step is when infinite intelligence takes over and starts collecting all the components that will bring whatever it is you ask for to fruition. And part three is your job once again, and that is to recognize when what you want is here and you let yourself have it. I know this sounds too simplistic, but I have been practicing this for a while now and my life just keeps getting better everyday.

People think that when they get whatever it is they want that they will be happy. But that’s backward thinking. Oh, they might be happy for a while but that only lasts for a short time because they haven’t changed their thinking. You see, you must be happy first. Then the things you want will come and it will be fast. And when you do get whatever it is you’ve asked for you will be satisfied and eager for more. It’s just the way it works. As humans we are always looking for the next idea, or fun time, or a new mate, or the next great job, or the next new home. It’s a never ending process.But if you’re waiting for any of these things to happen before you’ll be happy, then you’ll never really be happy. I hope you’re getting this because it’s very important that you understand what I’m saying.

Now in order to be happy first you must change your thinking. What I mean is you need a new perspective. Look for the silver lining in all situations. Talk to yourself and say nice things. For instance, when you look in the mirror say to yourself, “I love you” and state your name. But if that feels uncomfortable you can say, “I’m willing to love you” until you can say, “I love you”. You can learn about mirror work from Louise Hay. She was a self-love coach and she has lots of processes on how this can be accomplished. Also when changing your perspective you can start looking for positive aspects in other people. Don’t focus on the negative because what you give your attention to will manifest whether you want it or not. See people the way you want to see them. But there are always those people that seem to be stuck in their negativity, and they can’t figure out how to change that. The best you can do for a person like that is be a good example of a positive person, and hope that they will learn inadvertently through you. But don’t try to make that happen. In reality you can only think for yourself. All people have the same opportunity to be happy. It’s up to them to make the change.

Another thing to work on while changing your thinking is your self-talk. Do you constantly belittle yourself, even in small ways? Like do you call yourself dumb or stupid? Or look in the mirror and only see flaws? These things may seem small but what you are doing is perpetuating the things you don’t like about yourself. In order to change your outside, you must change your inside first. When you call yourself smart your subconscious mind will find ways to prove that you are. You see your subconscious mind does not reason, it only takes what you believe and keeps giving you more of that. So since we all have to think, why not make it good thoughts? And stop worrying about what anybody thinks about you, because it’s really none of your business. They are not living your life, therefore they cannot think for you. You are the master of your thoughts. You have every right to be, do or have anything you desire. Actually we are all spiritual beings having human experiences. We are all part of this infinite intelligence that makes up the entire Universe. Once you realize this you can create your world exactly the way you want it to be. It will feel magical or miraculous. People will wonder how you accomplish all the things you do. Life will be fun and your energy levels will be through the roof. Time will flow seamlessly, and you will always feel the power of the Universe, showing you, knowing you, loving you, having fun with you and so much more. Everything, and I mean everything, comes from the same place. That is what is known as Source or God or infinite intelligence. As Abraham always says, “It’s as easy to create a castle as it is to create a button. It’s all the same process. It just depends on how you think and feel about what you think that makes things happen.

So, you see that it is very important if you want to live your most authentic life, to learn how to change your beliefs, which are just thoughts that you keep thinking, to beliefs that serve you. Become one with nature and flow love to everyone and everything, and see how your world will change to exactly the life you want.

So now is the time to start your new journey. Have fun with it and be the best you. No one else can do it for you. Remember there is always great love here for you.


Deb Mertan


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