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What is Your Special Talent?

Do you know that each and every one of us has a special talent that the world could not do without? I’m not kidding. The thing is that we are not taught this at an early age, so we just go through life trying this and doing that, but we still find no satisfaction. What we knew at birth is somehow taught out of us by well meaning people like parents, teachers, government and church. But if we would really think about what our special talent is, and we geared our thoughts toward doing whatever it is for ourselves, we could live much happier and fulfilled lives, which in turn is good for everyone.

You might not think that your special talent is something that could help the world, but as I have said in other blogs, God does not make spare parts. Every single one of us has a purpose in this life. It could be as simple as baking really great cookies, or as difficult as becoming a neurosurgeon.

Whatever your special talent is, is wonderful and necessary. I feel that my special talent is writing blogs and books on self love and living much happier lives. I didn’t even start writing until I was in my early 50’s. I’ve been writing for around thirteen years now. And even though I’m not famous I am becoming known as the person to go to when you need help in finding your true self. And I’m not rich in the monetary sense yet, but I’m very wealthy in love and appreciation, and that is very good. I have no doubt that the money will come eventually. The secret to getting everything you desire is to keep yourself as happy as possible as often as possible. And the way to do that is to notice how you are feeling. And how you are feeling is how you are vibrating. And how you are vibrating is how everything is created.

Now, you’re probably wondering, “How do I know what I’m vibrating?” Well, that’s when we loop back to keeping ourselves happy. When we experience joy we can’t help but vibrate in concert with our inner knowing. Which is also a way of saying we are connecting to our inner being. Or you could say, “I am a spiritual being having a human experience.”

So how do you find your special talent? Well, you have to ask yourself what it is that floats your boat? What is it that makes you different? And are you allowing yourself to do whatever it is that makes you feel tuned in, tapped in and turned on? You know it’s all an inside job. You are the boss of you, and nothing can change that. You have every right to live a life of your choosing. No one can insert anything into your life without your permission. Everything that happens in your life, you have a part in. This is an attraction based Universe, and you draw to you whatever you focus on, good or bad. So you see, it is up to you to treat yourself kindly and allow yourself to be happy, no matter what else is going on around you. And you know what, it’s not going to happen overnight. It takes practice to keep vibrating on the upper scale. You will fall back occasionally and that’s a good thing. Every time you fall back you will ask in a stronger way for what you really want. Even if you are not using words you will be asking for improvement. Because we ask with our feelings as well as with our words. And those seemingly bad moments will come less and less, because feeling good is what will dominate.

One way to get up on your high flying disc is to meditate. A lot of people are not sure what meditation is, so I will explain. Meditation is a quieting of the mind. This is how you free up your mind so that good ideas can come into view. It is a way of aligning with your spiritual side, which is what we all want. This is the only way to live your authentic life.

Now here’s how to practice being happy and caring about how you feel. Start appreciating everything and everyone. Love for the sack of loving. See the positive in people, especially those that give you grief. They are your biggest assets when it comes to learning how to control your feelings. And once you can control your own happiness no matter what anyone else is doing or saying,you get it. In fact, it’s safe to say, it is none of your business what anyone else thinks about you. You have every right to feel good, worthy, appreciated, loved and perfectly imperfect. In fact you are never alone because you always have spiritual guidance and support. You only need to ask and trust that everything you ask for is always given. And all you have to do is let it come. And that’s what staying happy does.

So what is your happiness? What is your special talent? Only you can know. So start enjoying more. Remember to smell the roses. See the beauty in the trees and the birds and the mountains and the sky and all the other wonderful people there are all around our planet. You are special and you are an important part of everything. So please love yourself and know that you are enough. And remember there is always great love for you here.


Deb Mertan


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