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Three Rules to Live By

I know this is going to sound a little redundant, but there is a good reason for it. I’ll explain shortly, after I tell you my secret to living happily ever after. So here goes…Rule #1- Have as much fun as possible.

Rule #2- Have as much fun as possible.

And if you forget rule #1 and rule #2- Rule #3 is..Have as much fun as possible.

See, I told you it would sound redundant, but as the advertisers say, a person must see or hear an ad at least three times before it really sinks in. So by repeating these rules three times it is more likely to resonate with you. You see, by having fun you keep your vibration high, which in turn keeps you happier, healthier and more in love with life and in love with yourself. Life is supposed to be fun. If it were up to me I would make it a law. And fun doesn’t always have to be off the wall enthusiasm. Fun could be having a good conversation with someone, or playing a board game, or watching a good movie, preferably a comedy. But of course it could be riding a roller coaster or skydiving, it’s all up to you how to have fun. The important thing is that you keep yourself as happy as possible. No matter what else is going on around you, you have the ability to find something to feel good about. There is always a silver lining to every situation. Heck, I even find joy in picking out a fun coffee mug every morning. I collect mugs as souvenirs. Some have feet, some have happy faces and some have sculls. It’s just my way of remembering all the fun I had on all my different vacations. You see how anything can bring joy into your day? I say day because every day is a new beginning. And now is all we have. And when you live in the now, there is no time to worry or fret about the past or the future.

I know this all sounds too easy or too frivolous, but in reality it’s the only way to live. As humans we tend to make things more difficult than is necessary. If we could all just chill and pay attention to our own happiness we would all be better off. When we put our noses into everyone else’s business it just serves to confuse and annoy us. When we pay attention to our own dreams and desires we find a clarity that shows us the best path to take for any endeavor.

As I wrote in another blog, life is a game, so aim to win. And as far as I’m concerned, when I’m happy, I am a winner. For me, life has been pretty miraculous. Have you ever heard of the Law of Attraction? Well, if not, you should really research it. Or listen to Abraham-Hicks podcasts. The Law of Attraction is exactly what it sounds like. Like attracts like, where focus goes energy flows, which means that whatever you focus on shows up in your experience. And that means when you think better thoughts you attract more better thoughts. But it also works in the opposite direction. If you are mad or sad or hateful that is what will show up in your experience. So you see it is all up to you to be happy or not. So as long as you are looking for things to make you happy, the more happiness will come. Why don’t you give it a shot for a week or two and see how things will morph into a life you can really enjoy.

So what is the gist of this blog? It is to look for reasons to feel good or at least better, until it becomes natural, and life becomes something you recognize as yours and only yours. And believe me, you are the only one that counts when it comes to your happiness.

So now go out there and be the example of sunshine I know you can be. And remember, there is always great love here for you.


Deb Mertan


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