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Law of Attraction is Your Best Friend

Have you ever thought about how things manifest? Have you ever thought about something you wanted and then suddenly it showed up like magic? Well, that is because you had no resistance to the idea of whatever it was you desired. You see, the Universe is like a giant magnet, and so are you. This is what is known as the Law of Attraction. It is the only law that really counts. And when you learn to work in concert with this law, your life will be as magical as you allow it to be. I’m not kidding. The trick is to keep yourself on the positive end of the spectrum. Think of a long stick, with what you want is on one end, and the absence of what you want is on the other end. And there are all sorts of situations in between. And what comes to you is what end of the stick you mostly focus on, or anything in between. Remember, where focus goes, energy flows.

So, why am I telling you about the Law of Attraction? Because it’s the only way to live the life you’ve always dreamed of. When you start giving yourself permission to have what you really want, you will be happier than you can imagine. And being happy is the only way to truly live. And you can’t wait for someone or something to make you happy, you must choose to be happy. That’s when everything will start flowing in a very positive direction.

Now, you’re probably asking yourself, “How do I make myself happy?” Well, it’s simple, but it’s hard as well. The simple part is knowing that being happy is the only way to be your authentic self. The hard part is changing all the old habits and beliefs that don’t serve you anymore. It takes a lot of practice to start seeing things in a new light. But as long as you have a mind, you can do it. You are the boss of yourself, and that’s the truth. Whether you choose to believe it is up to you.

So, how do you change a habit or belief that no longer works for you. Well it may surprise you to know that you can’t just stop thinking the way you’ve been thinking. Because when you are trying NOT to think about whatever it is, that’s all you’ll think about. The trick is to change your thoughts to things that do please you. When you find yourself going back to the old habits and beliefs you stop and remind yourself that you don’t have to think that thought anymore. Then you look for a thought that feels better. You see, the Universe never hears “NO”. Whatever you focus on is what comes to you. If you say, “Yes I want that thing”, the Universe says, “Okay”. And when you say, “NO I do not want that”, the Universe says, “Oh you’re focused on that so here’s some more”. Get it? One thing that helps is to write a list of positive things to think about. It could be about something that has happened or something that you want to happen, as long as it is a pleasing thought. One thing that I like to think about is the mansion that I want. As Abraham-Hicks says, “It’s as easy to create a castle as it is a button, it’s all the same process. But the trick is to only think about it for as long as it feels good. But if it starts to get all balled up, wondering where it is and who is going to bring it, or how will I get the money to pay for it or how long will it take to get here, I stop daydreaming about it. That just slows everything down. I only daydream as long as it feels good to me. I hope this is making sense to you. What the gist of this blog is about is staying happy as much as possible and knowing what you want so that the Universe and the Law of Attraction can work with you to bring you anything that your heart desires. That’s why I say that the Law of Attraction is your best friend. Because it always shows you what you are thinking and how you are feeling by what is coming to you. Remember, the Universe is going to comply with your thoughts whether they are good or bad. If bad things are happening you have to believe that you are a part of the mix. And also remember that where focus goes, energy flows. I keep saying that because it’s true. So don’t you want to pay attention to where your thoughts are leading you? Once you start seeing the correlation between your thoughts and what is going on in your life, you will be better equipped to create the life you choose. And what better way to show yourself love than to think the thoughts that make you happy?

So I guess I’ve rambled on long enough. I hope you got a good message and that you are ready to live the most fabulous life ever. There is always great love for you here.


Deb Mertan


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