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Be Willing

You might be asking yourself, be willing to do what? Well the answer is, to be willing to love yourself. Loving one’s self is probably one of the hardest things to do. But it is also the most important thing to do if you want to live your most authentic life. So that’s why I say, if you are not completely in love with yourself, at least be willing to give it a shot.

Here are a few tips on how to start loving yourself. One of the easiest ways is to look into a mirror and say to yourself, I am willing to love you, (and say your name). As you continue to do this as often as possible you will eventually really feel that love. And you will find yourself saying, I love you. Sometimes we are not exactly the way we want to look at the moment, but be willing to see yourself as you want to be. But in the meantime it is important to find a way to love yourself just the way you are. I know I have said this before in many of my blogs, but it is the truth and warrants repeating,

Self-love is the most important love of all. It is the path to joy, to youthful long life, and your true authentic self. It’s how you become the person you came here to be.The joyful being that understands that life is supposed to be good. The truth is that each and every one of us is supposed to be happy in our own deliberate way. And when you respect this concept you draw to you people, places and events that truly bring you joy. In reality, your life will be as good as you allow it to be.

Here is another way to be willing. Please be willing to slow down. What’s the rush? Stop and smell the roses so to speak. When you give yourself permission to take life one moment at a time you will find that things happen in perfect timing. People rush around so much these days that they miss out on the simple things in life. And those are the things that really matter. And when you slow your pace you’ll notice that you’re in better traffic most of the time. And that you’re rarely ever late to anything anymore. And that things in general just work out. When you’re not rushing you are more relaxed. You give yourself time to think. Ideas just come so naturally, and you’re able to create a life that truly makes you happy. And you have to be willing to think the way you want to think. And be who you want to be.

Another thing that you should be willing to do is stop worrying.What good has it done for you? When you worry you lower your energy, and that causes you to have self doubt, which in turn loses the ability for self-love. So be willing to know that it’s all good and you can’t get anything wrong because you’ll never get it done. Life is everlasting. You are a spiritual being having a human experience. And you came to this time, space, reality to expand the Universe. And that is inevitable. So why not enjoy the journey and be willing to live a wonderful life? And be willing to let all others live the life that pleases them.

So for now, remember that there is always great love for you here.

Yours Truly,

Deb Mertan


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